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Wednesday 28 February 2024

Give A Little Love

 

Yup. We own this month, us February born people and some of you people as well, lol. 😁It's the month of love. As a matter of fact, the entire year should be a year of love. Now, you may have been hurt, betrayed, jilted, dumped and so on by the seemingly love of your life and probably sworn off love but I'm here to tell and encourage you to give love a chance. Love is what makes the world a beautiful and wholesome place to live in. Let go of your pain and hurt and let love lead your way to greatness.
 
I know firsthand how desolate things might be when you have been betrayed by the very person who was meant to protect you and love you and I also know how beautifully you can blossom if you pull through and get past the hurt. Don't let nothing or nobody weigh you down. Never be afraid to start afresh and to love and be loved.

I know the month is almost over yes, I have been writing this post since the beginning of the month but I got caught up in other stuff. My apologies 😢 but that doesn't mean we won't celebrate love and life. Let us make the most of the daily moments we have.

Cheers. πŸ’–

Monday 5 February 2024

I STILL Better Pass My Neighbour!???


Dear Readers,

Would you believe that I wrote the post below since 2014? How time flies indeed. Alas, little or NOTHING has changed since I wrote this post. People are even more self-absorbed and have become more ridiculous in their manners and attitudes. The worst part is that the betrayal that comes with this selfishness usually comes from the closest friends and families rather than strangers even. 

Truth be told, I feel a lot of these craziness is driven by the unnatural desire to get rich quickly by any means possible thus showing that you are indeed better than everyone else. To what end, you wonder? I have not the foggiest clue, but I know that such mindsets are destructive and unsustainable. 

Some of you might have heard the news of the 22-year-old nanny that stole the baby of her employer and ran away a few days ago. That news proper stressed me out, but I just kept praying the poor wee baby would be found safe and in good time. Imagine learning the nanny was apprehended a few days ago, questioned and confessed to selling the baby off to a buyer for N800,000!! A whole child that the mother carried for ten months and laboured over being sold off like a piece of furniture because some people's twisted minds thought it would be a good scheme to get rich. Gosh. 


Thankfully, as of today, the baby has been found while the search is still on for the buyer and possibly the cartel behind this madness. We all need to do better as human beings and make this world a better and more comfortable place for everyone. 

Please enjoy the oldie but goodie piece below and do have a beautiful week ahead. 


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Seriously guys, who coined the slogan I-better-pass-my-neighbour? I would like to meet the person and pick their brains for a while. For those readers from outside Nigeria, the small petrol power generating set is what is referred to by some Nigerians as I-better-pass-my-neighbour. The generator is quite small and makes little noise and can only power bulbs and fans and a few small machines.


It is fairly affordable and thus accessible to the lower- and middle-class citizens. Some people own at least one of these smaller generators and an average sized one that can power equipment such as the freezer, refrigerator, washing machine and air conditioners. By now I'm sure foreigners are wondering if they are reading right. Yes dears, you are. We, the wonderful citizens of Nigeria, have to provide our own power supply individually. Those who cannot afford these generators, have to do without power until the power companies find it in their dear hearts to provide such. Sigh.

Anyway, this post is not about them today. Rather it is about the selfish nature of some Nigerians who think they have "arrived" by owning an I-better-pass-my-neighbour or anything such might connoteI find the name and mentality very distasteful and a tad too cocky. What makes you think you are better than those who cannot afford an item? If you go around with such a mentality, then it simply means you won't help the less privileged when they are in need because you are better than them.
RME.



We must love and help our neighbours as often as we can without getting weary of reaching out. That one is privileged today doesn't mean one should act out, especially when no one knows tomorrow.






I rest my case.