Sex Outside The Boudoir ...................

Yup! It's a day for another sex discussion and since we are all adults, we can learn from one another. Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, today's sex talk is about location. Sex (or love making) between a couple shouldn't be a thing of shame and it should be discussed. I know some people tend to be very shy about discussing sex with their partners but this should not be so, largely because you are both having sex anyways so why not talk about it and maximize both your satisfaction?

The last thing you want to be is a sexual bore with your spouse so spicing up your sex life is very important, and one of the ways in which to do this is to take the party out of the regular spot i.e. the bedroom. Now this is in parts because you have couples without children and couples with children so even though the ground rule is the same, the guidelines are not.


Ground rule for all: All couples ought to have sex around their home and not just restrict it to the bedroom alone.

Guidelines for parents without kids yet: You lot are the luckiest because you have no fear of worrying a child will walk in on you in the act and be scarred for life by the image, hehehe. So long as you draw your blinds and don't have nosy neighbours with telescopes, you are good to go. There are lots of fun places around the house you can indulge in such as;

your living room (floor, couch, couch arm, standing up against the wall, you get my drift)
your bathroom (especially if you have a bath tub, on the covered toilet seat, in front of the sink, etc) your kitchen (ok before you freak out, doing it in the kitchen means you have to be readily conscious of hygiene and hot surfaces so bear those in mind.)
your laundry room (atop washing machines are worth trying, trust me;)
your foyer (Yup, that entrance before you get to your living room, maximise spaces people)
your veranda/balcony (only if you live on the top floor of a high rise and it's dark outside o)

Guidelines for parents with kids: This is more tricky but definitely doable. Children are beautiful and incredible to have but you should not allow child-bearing/raising suck out the fun/sex in your marriage. It takes a lot of work to find the energy to remain sexy when you're raising a child/children, but you must find it and apply it. Largely because once these children grow up, they will leave you and your partner and start their own lives and guess who you will be stuck with at home? Yup, your partner hence the need to ensure that you both are on the same page sexually and on all other fronts through out your marriage.

inside your LOCKED bathroom (especially if you have a bath tub, on the covered toilet seat, in front of the sink, etc)
inside your LOCKED kitchen (ok before you freak out, doing it in the kitchen means you have to be readily conscious of hygiene and hot surfaces so bear those in mind.)
inside your LOCKED  laundry room (atop washing machines are worth trying, trust me;)
inside your living room ONLY when the children are away at school, on holidays out of the house, etc.
the veranda/balcony of a hotel (you do know getaways are very needed once in a while, right?;)

So there you have it, a few ideas to help spice up your sex lives. There's no harm or shame in experimenting with your partners so long as you both communicate clearly about these things. Feel free to share this with your friends and partners and also suggest (in the comment section) more ways to spice things u. You will be helping others. Thanks. :)